1. Relative-Control-103: “Being able to build or make things, food included.”
There’s something incredibly attractive about someone who can create things with their hands, whether it’s a delicious meal or a piece of furniture.
2. Excellent_Price5169: “I’ve had had girls ask me to move in because I’m a mechanic. Note I know it’s not a hobby but come on.”
Practical skills like fixing cars can be a huge draw, showing both competence and reliability.
3. Zenshinn: “I love a girl who can play the bass.”
Musical talent, especially something as cool as playing the bass, can be incredibly appealing.
4. RoseCooper15: “Wood working – think custom cabinetry.”
The ability to craft beautiful and functional items from wood is a skill that many find highly attractive.
5. RazzleberryHaze: “This was in my early twenties, but I stopped by buddy’s house to hang out. When I showed up, another gal who was a mutual friend (my friend, his wife, and myself) was pulling back their clothes drier and then climbed over it to start dismantling from the backside of the machine, and fixed the heater core. She worked at some appliance service jig at the time, but that made me realize self sufficient women are an absolute diamond.”
Self-sufficiency and the ability to fix things around the house can be incredibly attractive traits.
6. CheckYourStats: “A Woman who has her own hobbies, and doesn’t need to make them an integral part of the relationship. Few things are more attractive than a Lover who can go do their own thing, and then come back ready to do an “us” thing.”
Independence and having personal interests can make someone much more appealing.
7. jpking010: “Cooking, Hiking, Camping, Gardening.”
These hobbies show a love for both creativity and the outdoors, which many find attractive.
8. Maxspeed120: “Women who can fix broke shit 😂 or at least try. Most men and women don’t. Since I like fixing shit it’s kinda nice knowing I don’t have to do things for them, but I do anyways.”
Being handy and willing to tackle repairs can be a very attractive quality.
9. OoeyGooeyQuesadilla: “Painting.”
Artistic skills like painting can be incredibly appealing, showcasing creativity and passion.
10. Silly_Balls: “I’m a dude and I do cross stitch and needle point and women think it’s incredibly cute.”
Engaging in traditionally unexpected hobbies can make someone stand out and seem more interesting.
11. Spaceshit1: “For me the sexiest thing a man can do is cook, read and exercise…”
These hobbies show a dedication to self-improvement and a well-rounded personality.
12. cleptilectic: “Keeping bees. My friend Summer’s dad keeps bees and it’s kind of hot.”
Unique hobbies like beekeeping can be surprisingly attractive, showing a connection to nature and sustainability.
13. Devil_Halo: “Girls who play volleyball.”
Athleticism and team sports can be very appealing, showcasing both physical fitness and teamwork.
14. DareDemon666: “As a straight bloke, I’d say anything. I’ve come across so many women who do nothing but watch TV and stare at their phone all day. The problem with that is that they have absolutely nothing interesting to talk about. By contrast, the women I’ve met with hobbies are far more interesting people.”
Having any hobby at all can make someone more interesting and engaging to talk to.
15. inkseep1: “Weight lifting. I really want a middle-aged woman who is strong enough to throw me to the floor and choke me with her thighs.”
Physical strength and fitness can be very attractive, showing dedication and discipline.
16. Saskatchewaner: “Women who play board games.”
Engaging in strategic and social hobbies like board games can make someone more appealing.
17. debonairmarmoset: “Faberge egg collecting. 🙂”
Unique and niche hobbies can make someone stand out and seem more interesting.
18. Mukduk_30: “Men who play guitar/ piano and also sing well.”
Musical talent is often seen as very attractive, showcasing creativity and emotional expression.
19. RecycledJunk: “Kind of an oddball but, for me personally, women who are into old currency or America’s only marsupial The Opossum really excite me.”
Having unique and quirky interests can make someone more intriguing and memorable.
20. RebeccaETripp: “Not so much a hobby, but I like Renaissance men/women! People who are hungry for information, who make intuitive connections between subjects, and simply love to explore and understand reality across multiple axes. Few things are more attractive than an enthusiastically curious mind!”
Intellectual curiosity and a love for learning can be incredibly attractive traits.
21. FormulaLiftr: “Sports, The gym, overall health and fitness. Shows a dedication to themselves and a long term goal which is equally as attractive as the physical attributes that come from being an athlete/into weight training.”
A commitment to health and fitness can be very appealing, showing both physical and mental discipline.
22. texashilo: “Guys who volunteer for a good cause.”
Volunteering and giving back to the community can be very attractive, showcasing compassion and selflessness.
23. Admirable_Art_9769: “A guy who reads. I feel like most readers are women.”
Reading can be a very attractive hobby, showing intelligence and a love for learning.
24. Titouf26: “Exercise: Doesn’t need to be crazy about it, but someone who likes to exercise is at least decently healthy. Hobbies she can do on her own: basically anything she enjoys and can do on her own so that sometimes when I want my own time I don’t have to feel guilty cause I need to take care of her 24/7.”
Having personal hobbies and a commitment to health can make someone more attractive and independent.
25. DerpCaster: “Just being their own person with their own interests, hobbies, and opinions on things.”
Individuality and having personal interests can make someone much more appealing.
26. 1tacoshort: “Dungeons and Dragons. Talk nerdy to me!”
Engaging in nerdy and strategic hobbies can be very attractive, showing creativity and intelligence.
27. aupxv: “Art, like painting, drawing, anything like that.”
Artistic hobbies can be very appealing, showcasing creativity and emotional expression.
28. Mazmier: “Girls who read.”
Reading can be a very attractive hobby, showing intelligence and a love for learning.
29. Loud-Emu-1840: “For me would be cooking, playing musical instruments or singing.”
These hobbies show creativity and a love for the arts, which many find attractive.
30. n30l1nk: “I imagine a lot of these answers are “my own hobby/thing I like,” which isn’t surprising. When I (as a dude) find out a girl is a gamer, plays a musical instrument, watches anime, etc., my ears obviously perk up. But it’s always interesting to meet someone that’s passionate about some kind of hobby or vocation, even if it’s not necessarily something you do yourself or are familiar with.”
Passion for any hobby can make someone more interesting and engaging to talk to.
31. Culzean_Castle_Is: “My wife is obsessed with veggie gardening growing food. She spends a few hours per week sorting that out. It is attractive seeing her in the garden with her “gardening clothes” she gardens nude.”
Gardening can be a very appealing hobby, showing a connection to nature and sustainability.
32. JackCooper_7274: “Somebody please say 3D printing. Edit: fiddlesticks”
Engaging in modern and innovative hobbies like 3D printing can make someone stand out and seem more interesting.
33. Aliveandwellnope: “For me I love ballet girls.”
Dance, especially something as graceful as ballet, can be incredibly attractive.
34. I_am_inenvitable76: “Guys who are into fashion, guys who love cooking.”
These hobbies show a love for creativity and self-expression, which many find attractive.
35. MbMinx: “Honestly, anything they find joy in. Joy and confidence are highly attractive. The hobby may not be attractive to me specifically, but that doesn’t have to matter. As long as there is a good balance between spending time together and pursuing our individual interests, it’s all good.”
Finding joy and confidence in any hobby can make someone much more appealing.
36. Comfortable-Survey30: “I came home to find my girlfriend at the time, changing her front brake pads in a long aqua blue sundress. She was done with both sides in well under an hour. She said she didn’t want any help.”
Practical skills and self-sufficiency can be incredibly attractive traits.
37. MonkeyMercenaryCapt: “More of an anti-hobby but any woman who doesn’t use social media and actually does anything else. Totally a personal anecdote, having recently dipped my toes back into the dating pool but it feels like a lot of women don’t really… do anything? It’s all instagram, tiktok, netflix, go out to eat, go to the gym and that’s just kind of it.”
Having hobbies outside of social media can make someone much more interesting and engaging.
38. ballsaksfifthavenue: “Skateboarding.”
Skateboarding can be a very cool and attractive hobby, showcasing physical skill and creativity.
39. Cosplay6718: “Become a pro at assembling IKEA furniture. Handyman skills are surprisingly sexy.”
Being handy and able to assemble furniture can be a very attractive quality.
40. Baconator440: “Humor makes everyone sexier.”
A good sense of humor can be incredibly attractive, making someone more fun to be around.
41. miyananana: “Idk if it would be considered a hobby but I love a man who owns and cherishes a cat. They tend to be a bit more sensitive and down to earth in my experience.”
Pet ownership can be very appealing, showing compassion and responsibility.
42. straightnoturns: “Anything at all, have passion for something. Being capable at anything is attractive. Your looks will fade so you better have some personality.”
Having passion and capability in any hobby can make someone much more attractive and interesting.
43. NepNep_: “Gamer girls.”
Gaming can be a very attractive hobby, showcasing both strategic thinking and creativity.
44. TheMechanic10: “In my opinion? Love for D&D,
